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Episode 55: Defining Sexual Shame

Natasha Helfer Parker interviews Dr. Tina Sellers in regards to her work with clients and students from religiously conservative cultures and her experience noticing a recent increase of sexual shame coming from what she calls the purity movement. She recently published a book called Sex, God and the Conservative Church: Erasing Shame from Sexual Intimacy where she addresses sex-positive approaches people can reduce harmful shame and adopt both Christian and Hebrew traditions that can enhance, heal and edify their sexual relationships. She will be presenting at the Rocky Mountain Sex Summit coming up this very week, September 22-23 in Salt Lake City, Utah. Dr. Sellers is the Director of Medical Family Therapy at Seattle Pacific University and has been teaching the sexuality course for the Family Therapy program.

Resources Mentioned During the Podcast:


Al Vernacchio: Sexual Educator

Sex, Mom and God: How the Bible's Strange Take on Sex Led to Crazy Politics by Frank Schaeffer

Are We Due for Another Sexual Revolution? with Dr. Roger Libby
Thank God for Sex project

Girls and Sex: Navigating Complicated Landscape by Peggy Orenstein

The Etiology and Phenomenology of Sexual Shame: A Grounded Theory Study by Dr. Noel Clark

Other Resources:

Christians Caught Between the Sheets — How ‘Abstinence Only’ Ideology Hurts Us by Tina Sellers

Thank you to Jeff Meyers for the intro and Peter & Mary Danzig of Otter Creek Duo for the concluding bumper music.

Natasha Helfer Parker runs a private online practice Symmetry Solutions and writes at The Mormon Therapist for Patheos: Hosting the Conversation of Faith.  She also hosts the popular podcast, Mormon Mental Health.

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